I'd like the memory of me
to be a happy one.
I'd like to leave an after glow
of smiles when life is done.
I'd like to leave an echo
whispering softly down the ways,
of happy times and laughing times
and bright and sunny days.
I'd like the tears of those who grieve,
to dry before the sun;
of happy memories
that I leave when life is done.UnknownThis site is dedicated in loving memory and celebration of the life of Brenda Lee Taylor-Beck.
Brenda was born in Oskaloosa, Iowa on January 9, 1964. After her battle with cancer, she passed away at her home in Ketchum, Oklahoma on November 4, 2011. Brenda is dearly loved and deeply missed by her family. She left behind her mom Delores Taylor, children Jeremy, Misty and Sabrina Smith, her siblings Linda Miller, Rick Peek, Debbie Darner and Karen Ridlen, many nieces and nephews along with numerous friends.
A little tribute, small and tender,
Just to say we still remember.
Dearer still as the days depart,
She lives forever in our hearts.
The tears in my eyes I can wipe away,
The ache in my heart will always stay.
Beautiful memories are treasured ever,
Of happy days when we were together.
I've learned a great deal from Brenda during her battle with cancer. I wish I would have had more time with her to reminisce and make new memories. Although I can't change the past, I feel blessed that we were able to accept each other for who we are. Our love for each other grew in ways I hadn't expected. I realized what it was like to love unconditionally. I hope I can continue to grow and learn from her example. Brenda's courage and strength will not be forgotten. Although she is no longer with us physically, I know she is with us in spirit.
I hope the memories shared on this website will convey the depth of love we felt for my little sister. Life isn't perfect—relationships aren't perfect. But the bond of love shared between two people can never be broken—not even in death. I know Brenda would want us to realize how precious life is and make the most of every moment with those we love. Sis realized the importance of family and expressing our love for each other.
Originally I added audio and video to this memorial as a tribute to my little sister. Some were her favorites and others reflect my memories, my thoughts of her and my faith that God will see us through our time of sadness. However, the site is no longer allowing me to add additional videos and they have taken away the audio. Anything you see missing from the site that originally was here is only available by paying a membership fee. Hopefully I will be able to that in the future so I can get the music back and be able to add additional things as planned.
Meanwhile you can help keep Brenda's memory alive by lighting a candle, adding a memory, a photo or your condolences. Please check back for updates.
